Thursday, December 21, 2017

Being the Best Me I can be



Being the best Me, I can be

In our last blog entry, Gloria stated her thought that she often overeats to satisfy an emotional need.  I totally agree with her.  During my years of horrible binging I ate when I was angry, sad, anxious, afraid. . ., but I also ate when I was glad or happy.

Although, presently, I don’t go on those types of horrible binges as I did for several years (Overeaters Anonymous, the Weigh Down program by Gwen Shamblin and the anti-inflammatory diet I follow 90% of the time today for health reasons have been instrumental in helping me—I believe these have all been grace, nothing but grace), I still struggle with overeating—eating anything more than I need is overeating.

When I returned home recently from a Christmas party at which I had eaten too much, was bloated and miserable, I began to think.  Scripture states that drunkenness and gluttony are sins (“For drunkards and gluttons come to poverty, and lazing about clothes one in rags,” Prv. 23:21), but why? I’m not hurting God if I eat too much.  But I hurt myself; I destroy myself.  And you know what?  Oftentimes, I hurt others when I’ve eaten too much, for I become grumpy, and I’m not kind or patient or gentle with others (Gal. 5:22-23).  I take my misery out on them.  Hm, God loves me (Rom. 8:37-39).  He wants me to be the best possible Sharon I can be; He wants You to be the best possible You, You can be.  And He has given us guidelines and the grace for being such.  Praise His holy name.

                                                                                                                                    Sharon Witty

Thursday, December 7, 2017

Season of Eating

Well, here we are. Smack-dab in the middle of the “Season of Eating” - six weeks and three holidays filled with temptations galore. If you are like me you started out with a refrigerator full of Thanksgiving leftovers and a “to do” list that included baking an assortment of favorite Christmas cookies. Bah-humbug.

How are we supposed to maintain or lose weight during this time of the year?

I’ve always thought that weight loss required self-control and discipline. And the reason I fail is because I have none.  Zero.  Nada.

But, the more I read and hear about weight loss, the more often I hear that the problem is instead an emotional emptiness that we are trying to stuff full of the food we overeat. I rarely eat because of physical hunger. In fact, I’m not sure when I last ate because I physically needed food. That is my problem.

So, without undergoing several years of psychotherapy to determine what underlying issue is causing me to overeat, I choose to seek God’s help; I must surrender myself to His healing, today and tomorrow.

Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled,” (Matthew 5:6 NIV).

Gloria D. Stewart